Men don't share their kinks because the second we do, we get labeled creeps or worse 😞, amirite?

"Cheating women are welcome ✅". lol ya OP is a psycho.

by stanton41 1 day ago

Yeah sounds about right. Yikes.

by Anonymous 1 day ago

"My kink is porn. Hardcore, degrading porn, usually two young girls pretending to be gay for my pleasure. People aren't as supportive as I feel they should be!"

by Anonymous 1 day ago

LMAO HE CHANGED IT

by Temporary-Net 1 day ago

i looked and you're right… wtf?

by Anonymous 1 day ago

I second this statement.... What a wild adventure that was for 0700 in the morning.

by Hot_Syrup_6925 1 day ago

He hid it because he realized that most people will see him as cosplaying as a PDF file lol

by Anonymous 1 day ago

Do you remember how, and in what context, he talked about it? (Not meaning to sound demanding or hostile, you're just someone who saw it.) Because that's kind of the entire thing here.

by Anonymous 1 day ago

It depends on who you share your kinks with. Are you randomly telling people your kinks without warning ? Are you sharing them with your partner in a healthy discussion? I have plenty of kinks I've shared with partners and have never had a bad experience. Sure they may not always be into them so there's some we don't do but never got called a creep or worse for it.

by Anonymous 1 day ago

I shared them with my partner only in a healthy discussion..it turned out like this

by Party-Discount6554 1 day ago

there maybe a issue in your couple if you get called potential rapist by your loved one

by Anonymous 1 day ago

This happened with one person and now you think this is the only truth there is?

by langworthlavada 1 day ago

lol so the "someone" who called you a potential rapist was your partner?

by Anonymous 1 day ago

Yeah I'd be terrified to hear her side of this.

by Anonymous 1 day ago

There is no side because the conversation never occurred. He literally changed it mid-story from being a vague "someone" to being his partner.

by Anonymous 23 hours ago

Yeah the fact that the kink requires two women must trigger her. I am single lol so this was my uneducated opinion. Well mine could get me labelled as offender. Buttoning shirt, ya know vanilla for single guy.

by Anonymous 23 hours ago

She sounds unwell. Saying this as a woman btw.

by Anonymous 23 hours ago

That's exactly why most men shut up about what turns them on No, it's called knowing your audience.

by Anonymous 23 hours ago

This sounds like you told a group of people out in public,in a social setting ,which is 100% weird. It also depends on how you say it , if you're saying it in a lustful/overtly sexual/suggestive way then thats going to come off as creepy,as others replies have said ,theres a time and a place

by Alanis49 22 hours ago

The basis of your whole thesis is false. Men aren't having any observable trouble sharing their kinks, especially not in a way fundamentally different from women sharing their kinks. I'd also say generally if the venue is appropriate for sharing kinks, no one would be shaming you. Lastly, I'm not share this is of much consequence, as it's not like there's any negative consequence to getting gently kink shamed.

by Anonymous 22 hours ago

OP is very obviously not telling the whole story here. Man's profile is a mess.

by Anonymous 22 hours ago

I'm more interested in the fact that you said scissoring when talking about kink That's what a 12 year old thinks lesbians do

by Automatic_Study3189 22 hours ago

If your kink is scissoring, I will continue to call you a 12-year old. If that's kink-shaming, then I'm a kink shamer

by Automatic_Study3189 21 hours ago

It is, and you are. You shouldn't be ok with that.

by Anonymous 21 hours ago

It'll be tough, but I'll soldier on

by Automatic_Study3189 21 hours ago

OP, did you tell a teenager that your kink is watching 2 women scissor?

by Anonymous 20 hours ago

No man, a grown 20+ woman

by Party-Discount6554 20 hours ago

Well your profile says otherwise

by Rohanelisha 20 hours ago

Your profile says "21M".

by Leather-Capital 20 hours ago

Meanwhile, I'm just over here, having no desire to hear about anyone's kinks

by Substantial_Tip_6366 20 hours ago

Society needs to kink shame a LOT more. People like you start with 19 year olds, next it's 17, then 15 — and 12. This is how any kind of addiction progresses. Kinks are an addictive pathway for people with no morals or self-discipline. Kink shaming is how society protects children from predators like you.

by Anonymous 20 hours ago

If someone thinks that BDSM is all about inflicting pain, then yeah, I'd think that person has issues too.

by Fun-Bird 19 hours ago

The masochist says "hurt me". Replies the sadist "no".

by Danielmaribel 19 hours ago

Replies the sadist "you are only into this because you were abused as a child and seek instant attention at any cost" The masochist replies with the safe word

by Anonymous 19 hours ago

I'm pretty open about my kinks. I've never known of men specifically to shy away from sharing. Just, you know, don't share them with random people..

by Anonymous 19 hours ago

Why would I want to know your kinks?

by Anonymous 19 hours ago

Okay.

by starkdemetris 18 hours ago

If you don't see a difference between someone's kink or being assaulted and someone whose kink is doing the assaulting idk what to tell ya

by Emotional_Mix 18 hours ago

Who did you share it with? If some stranger told me we liked watching girls scissor id be a little concerned about him.

by dsatterfield 18 hours ago

Likes teenagers girls. Shocked pikachu when people notice and call out creepy behaviour for being creepy. 😂 cope

by Anonymous 18 hours ago

I feel like women also get shamed for sharing their kinks. In fact everyone does but in my experience it's more acceptable for men to share because women are seen as not sexual or not supposed to talk about that stuff

by Anonymous 17 hours ago

I don't think gender is a factor. For instance, I am not a man, but any time I share that I squish feces with my toes they start judging me

by Salliekling 17 hours ago

I mean I don't kink shame (at least this sounds consensual) but I'm definitely giving you the side-eye.

by Anonymous 17 hours ago

So you do kink shame

by Salliekling 17 hours ago

Mit der Ruhe putz die Schuhe. With calmness clean your shoes German saying.

by Anonymous 17 hours ago

It really depends on the specific kink. For instance, foot fetish is notoriously very divisive, either you are into it or you are absolutely not, very few in between. I'm into short hair and tomboy looking women, and there are a few morons on the internet that think I'm basically gay for having that preference, but I can assure you that I am absolutely cis het dude.

by Anonymous 16 hours ago

Discover older women.

by This_Worldliness 16 hours ago

Check OP profile lol.

by Alarmed-Package-8302 15 hours ago

If you share your kinks with someone who asked and they got judgemental, that person is being rude. They asked for something vulnerable and betrayed trust. They are either negging you (dumb tactic preys on insecurities and doesn't work) or if they are just legitimately are grossed out and regret asking and they are still being an ass about it because they selfishly only wanted to hear that you had the same kinks as them. This isn't a dating sim, if they are "just not that into you" take the hint and consider whether you actually want to date this person and they want to date you.

by nitzschelily 15 hours ago