+81 30s and 40s Isn't Old, amirite?

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Honestly I don't think this is an unpopular opinion amongst adults. I find that it's usually teenagers/ young adults that find 30s & 40s "old".

by Anonymous 2 days ago

That's true, but like I'm like in the demographic of people that share that opinion so I think that'd make my opinion unpopular for my group. NOT trying to sound prestigious or put myself above others, I'm just saying many people my age think one thing, I think another.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

It's all relative… when you're 12 you think 18 is ancient… when you're 40 you think 18 is a baby

by Anonymous 2 days ago

When I was 8, the fifth graders looked so mature and intimidating lmao Now I see a fifth grader and I'm like thats a baby

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Really? This is as good as I get?

by cyrus42 2 days ago

Peak, yes I agree. But I think most people think it means we're old and decrepit after that. People can still be good looking on their 40s and 50s

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Exactly. And to me- the people who still look good after 60 are the most attractive of anyone of any age ( admittedly not many of these people around)

by Anonymous 2 days ago

I 100% agree! That's usually when the facial bones start to show, and the person starts growing into themselves. It's strange how the beauty standard is sharp facial structures, yet "youthful" but a round face is basically the most youthful feature you can have but its seen as unattractive.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

I think you might have a facial bones kink

by vincenza73 2 days ago

What defines a kink tbh? I mean to be fair, I've found men with more pronounced facial bones attractive. So… do I have a facial bones kink? But does that mean people who find hair color or eye color have a kink for that? Hmmmm

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Ngl as a 19 year old I feel old sometimes. What do you mean I've been on summer break for a whole year 💔

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Did anyone ever think being in your 30s/40s was old?

by Flat_Plenty_1578 2 days ago

Yeah. During a time when the average lifespan was 30.

by sienna69 2 days ago

It was average because of baby and toddler deaths, healthy people still lived long lives in medieval times.

by Veumanastasia 2 days ago

Spoken like someone who's never surprised a twenty-something with their age. Nothing hurts your ego quite as much as those 3 seconds of wide eyes and stunned silence

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Thats more of a compliment is it not? Ive shocked some people with my age, and never felt bad about it.

by Strackeenid 2 days ago

I view "old" in a strict sense as someone who is 70 and older because by that age, they've just about lived the full lifespan of the average human.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

I do view mid 30s up as being 'old'

by Anonymous 2 days ago

I'm 19 and get called "unc" by my younger sister's friends lol

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Thank you! I appreciate that 🤝

by Anonymous 2 days ago

It's Gen Z who spend more time on the internet, grew up with it, and have fetishized the early, early stages of adulthood to the point where they actually remain adolescent longer, mentally. Not their fault it's just a result of an entire generation never knowing what it's like to live in the before times. I was getting told I was old at 28 by these people lol I'm 32 now, might as well be 60 to them.

by Confident_Aioli 2 days ago

Among whom is this a popular opinion? School kids?

by Kossfrida 2 days ago

Most people under 25 ig

by Anonymous 2 days ago

My age is showing hah

by Kossfrida 2 days ago

Nicki is not a great example 🤣 Of course, she doesn't have wrinkles when she gets that face snatched back every couple of months.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

I don't think so tbh She's always denied plastic surgery and her face has always looked the same tbh, doesnt show that obvious face life snatch But even if she had face surgery, I don't think she looks that far from what an average 43 yr old could look like lol

by Anonymous 2 days ago

30s today isn't like 30s in the 80s/90s. Look at how Hulk Hogan looked in his 30s.

by Verda10 2 days ago

According to life expectancy in America, 38 is half your life. Neither of my parents made it to 60.

by Internal-Place5259 2 days ago

old from a young person's point of view, young from 30 and 40 y/os'

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Whatever you say, grandpa.

by Kendall73 2 days ago

Grandpa with a 43 yr old mom💔

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Cope all you want. It's not my fault you're attracted to your mother.

by Kendall73 2 days ago

Mb gang

by Anonymous 2 days ago

You wrote a thesis about why women in their 40s are hot and your mom just happens to be that age. Come on buddy. You couldn't be more obvious.

by Kendall73 2 days ago

Palilalia is a common symptom for people with spectrum disorders. Maybe get that checked out.

by Kendall73 2 days ago

Textbook case.

by Kendall73 2 days ago

I think a big part of it is that so many people get fat at that age because their metabolism slows down and they don't adjust their lifestyle. While people who exercise can look great.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Its old for women because their fertility drops sharply during these ages. Men dont experience any kind of similar drop more like a pretty gentle dip. So idk For men its not old at all For women.....mmmmmmmmmm

by Frosty-Yesterday 2 days ago