Sex is disgusting. amirite?

Maybe you are asexual?

by millsbria 2 days ago

Asexual is a thing. You may fit that community.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

But I love other people just not the sex part

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Asexual specifically talks about the sex part. You can love others and be asexual

by Key_Reputation 2 days ago

That's literally the definition, you can love other people but feel no urge to have sex/do sex related things.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

More precisely, it's about lack of sexual attraction. Many asexuals still masturbate, though not necessarily see that as a sexual thing, and some even have sex life (to make their partner happy or enjoy the physical sensation etc).

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Good luck finding yourself. Nobody can tell you how to feel but yourself.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

A sexual just means you aren't interested in sex, you can still want romantic love

by Kesslershanie 2 days ago

Asexuality is not the same as aromanticism!

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Being interested in romantic stuff but not the sex part is common with asexuals. Welcome to the alphabet club. 🏳️‍🌈

by LowAdministrative899 2 days ago

And asexual only refers to sex. What you are thinking of is aromantic

by reginald95 2 days ago

What your thinking of is Aromantic Sexual and Romantic attraction are 2 different things. You can feel sexual attraction with no romantic feelings or you can have Romantic feelings with no sexual attraction or you can feel neither Regardless of what most think the 2 aren't mutually exclusive

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Asexual doesn't mean aromantic. Asexuals can date and have relationships There's also asexuals who are sex positive (from what I've been explained it's like a food you don't really enjoy but you can eat it on occasion for someone else's sake) and those who are sex repulsed. Maybe you find something that rings true in the asexual community? At least youll see you're not alone even if you don't land in that label or it changes. Sexuality is a lot of self discovery

by Anonymous 2 days ago

OP I'm begging you to not listen to strangers on the internet diagnose your sexuality. How you feel is very normal at your age

by Weberbettye 2 days ago

^this^

by Paxton42 2 days ago

Sex is objectively disgusting but puberty makes people horny and horniness drastically lowers people disgust filter. You might have late puberty, or you could be asexual. Or something related.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Some parts of it are disgusting, but very rewarding

by schambergerjed 2 days ago

If that's really your age, it's possible your body just hasn't started desiring sex yet. It'll probably change in the next few years. Also: don't let others label you as a-sexual. Your body will change many times in your life.

by Healthy-Camel1585 2 days ago

Most likely, you'll grow out of this. I hope you don't have any kind of trauma that's contributing to this view.

by Severe-Photo2528 2 days ago

Or they are just asexal. Not liking the idea of sex doesn't have to be trauma related

by Anonymous 2 days ago

You could be asexual or it could just be a thing where you try some stuff out later on and begin to like it

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Hella lame.

by United-Ask-1194 2 days ago

I had this opinion when I was 16, and I still think sex is disgusting... but it's also very sexy

by Anonymous 2 days ago

How?

by Anonymous 2 days ago

You are probably not Asexual. You're just not ready, and that is okay.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

We know it's you, Dexter (I'm kidding) It's totally cool to feel that way. I did for a very long time and I still do.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

It's not uncommon with younger people, apparently. They hate and fear sex more than almost anything. Boomer puritanism has nothing on Zoomer puritanism.

by joe76 2 days ago

At the end of the day we are animals. Animals mate and make babies. For most animals, yes, it feels good. That's so they do it. It's natural. The way you feel may be something to talk to a therapist about or it may go away as you get or older or find a person you'd actually like to do that with. Or maybe, it's just not for you and you're fine with that. That's cool too. But yes, I imagine this is a very unpopular opinion.

by Parking_Bank_8214 2 days ago

I heavily disagree with you, and I'm the same age. You have the right to feel how you feel though, maybe you're asexual, or just haven't grown into it, or may just not like it right now or something. It's fine as long as this doesn't turn you into a hyper-puritan person who looks down on other people for having/enjoying sex.

by Appropriate_Park_145 2 days ago

When I was 16 sex wasn't that great but now that I'm 26, sex is pretty damn great. I don't know how true this is, my mom always told me that you'd like sex more as you got older because you'll be able to climax! (My teenage self as the same question 10 years ago lol.. can't believe that was that long ago 😅) anyways now I have an orgasm at least once every time I have sex.

by FluffyEbb4633 2 days ago

Are your parents religious? Do you have any trauma around it? Are other things or textures disgusting to you? And last but also important, you could be asexual but i could not tell with little information.

by Ok-Sherbert 2 days ago

You're not asexual btw. This is a normal feeling to have about something you're uncomfortable doing.

by Anonymous 1 day ago

You quite clearly aren't as attracted to your bf as you think you are....

by reynabailey 1 day ago

You could be asexual. Note that this does not mean you are aromantic. You can love people and not want to have sex with them (your family, for instance.) best of luck in your search for a life partner.

by Manndarrion 1 day ago

That's just you. Most people don't think that You're probably asexual

by OwnLand4914 1 day ago

Tbf didn't like women until I was 17 you might be asexual ot just have a late puberty

by Estefaniastreic 1 day ago

it is but sexual drive lowers your disgust feeling. if you still feel disgusted as a grown-up, maybe you have a mental illness. because the default setting is human love segs

by Anonymous 1 day ago

It's perfectly fine to find sex unappealing. Maybe that'll change later, maybe not. As others have pointed out, have you considered that you might be asexual? How do you feel about sex with other women? Does that disgust you? If not, maybe you're lesbian.

by Anonymous 1 day ago

What you're feeling isn't wrong, You might be asexual! I'd look into the community and see if any of it resonates with you.

by Anonymous 1 day ago

As others have said, you might be asexual. Which is itself a spectrum. Some asexual people can still enjoy sex, and others are fully repulsed by it. Demi-sexual is similarly when you only experience sexual attraction with someone you love deeply. You can want romantic partners and even still find people attractive and still be asexual. But you don't need to stuff yourself into a label either. Just know you're not alone in not having the same perspective towards sex as your peers, and there is nothing wrong with that. it COULD be an underlying medical issue, but you're too young to go down that path. If in like 5 years you still aren't "feeling it" and you wish you were or you feel something is missing, talk to a dr. But until then, just have fun being 16.

by Turcottejacky 1 day ago

poor bf prolly going insane haha

by AcanthisittaFlat 1 day ago

Brother what????

by ValuableSale 1 day ago

Yea the bf is definitely gonna cheat

by Anonymous 1 day ago

Uhm...

by ValuableSale 1 day ago

You're asexual

by Anonymous 1 day ago

That's called being Asexual.

by Erickcorwin 1 day ago