*I generally take two helpings but most people will presume that I'm going to take just that first helping of food and however much I've put on my plate for that, is all that I'm going to eat for the whole meal.
So many freaking unnecessary full stops! In that same sentence in the above comment! (Silly iPad)
Hmm but maybe you haven't experienced the other side of the coin. I'm pretty thin and have been thin all my life, and I get so much unnecessary flack for it. I've never had a meal where someone hasn't commented about how much I eat. Because I'm thin even if I eat a substantial amount it is presumed that the quantity is less.i generally take two helpings but most ppl will presume that I'm going take just one helping and however much I've put. On my plate for that is all that. I'm going to eat for the whole meal. I feel like I have to justify myself whenever mealtime arrives because ppl will just make comments without even thinking. i get comments like you eat like a bird, are you on a diet, why do you eat less don't you know it's unhealthy, are you trying to compete with supermodels? And you can take it once in a while and just be like hahaha no I eat well ull see! But when u have to hahah heehee about people's fucked up assumptions on a daily basis it gets really tiring. Some people may even say these things good naturedly but most ppl are snide with their comments. Why should I be subjected to snide behavior every day because I'm thin? It's the same way on both sides believe me.
yeah me too... it's exciting yet irritating that you can imagin it from another persons perspective but you can't really see how it is from thier minds ! =D
"We passed an Indian restuarant on the way to work the other day and right next to it at the turning were these brightly coloured pinnatas where I had dropped my hummers keys last time .... "
"OH MY GOD! you racist you mean restuarant and just pinnatas not brightly coloured ones!! and you drive a hummer ?! environment killer !! kill yourself !! Don't ever speak with me again!"
" :S "
yeah sometimes it's unnecessary to refer to people as black or white ,I mean u could just say this guy.... but then I know that we just tend to do that automaticly for organisational description purposes to do with ur minds ! I think we all do that and it's not meant to be negetive ! It's just natural to sort of describe the world around us while talking, like you know next thing we know, some one will say "yeah this girl was standing in line ahead of me ..." "oh mygod why do you have to say girl? Say person! you sexist! "
*I generally take two helpings but most people will presume that I'm going to take just that first helping of food and however much I've put on my plate for that, is all that I'm going to eat for the whole meal.
So many freaking unnecessary full stops! In that same sentence in the above comment! (Silly iPad)
Hmm but maybe you haven't experienced the other side of the coin. I'm pretty thin and have been thin all my life, and I get so much unnecessary flack for it. I've never had a meal where someone hasn't commented about how much I eat. Because I'm thin even if I eat a substantial amount it is presumed that the quantity is less.i generally take two helpings but most ppl will presume that I'm going take just one helping and however much I've put. On my plate for that is all that. I'm going to eat for the whole meal. I feel like I have to justify myself whenever mealtime arrives because ppl will just make comments without even thinking. i get comments like you eat like a bird, are you on a diet, why do you eat less don't you know it's unhealthy, are you trying to compete with supermodels? And you can take it once in a while and just be like hahaha no I eat well ull see! But when u have to hahah heehee about people's fucked up assumptions on a daily basis it gets really tiring. Some people may even say these things good naturedly but most ppl are snide with their comments. Why should I be subjected to snide behavior every day because I'm thin? It's the same way on both sides believe me.
Yeah I think u just explained it really well. I couldn't articulate it but that is what I also disagreed with . The one sided argument.
Actually no , I haven't come across too many pricks like that. :D
yeah me too... it's exciting yet irritating that you can imagin it from another persons perspective but you can't really see how it is from thier minds ! =D
I think I agree with this post mostly because of the warped reality aspect more than the guy girl issue ;D
"We passed an Indian restuarant on the way to work the other day and right next to it at the turning were these brightly coloured pinnatas where I had dropped my hummers keys last time .... "
"OH MY GOD! you racist you mean restuarant and just pinnatas not brightly coloured ones!! and you drive a hummer ?! environment killer !! kill yourself !! Don't ever speak with me again!"
" :S "
yeah sometimes it's unnecessary to refer to people as black or white ,I mean u could just say this guy.... but then I know that we just tend to do that automaticly for organisational description purposes to do with ur minds ! I think we all do that and it's not meant to be negetive ! It's just natural to sort of describe the world around us while talking, like you know next thing we know, some one will say "yeah this girl was standing in line ahead of me ..." "oh mygod why do you have to say girl? Say person! you sexist! "
true about the stereotypical yet not necessarily prejudiced
Aaah ...got it
Lovely that you tried to articulate that ...I'm sure a lot of people(including me) have given this a thought in the past.
wha? =s
Nowadays*
What's wrong with an attractive person thinking the same? I don't understand the post because of the first line.
yeah he knows it and is all too aware of it ...sort of takes the charm away