When people call you and say: I'm Bored...what does that mean? Are people just generally bored today? More
+8It's weird how advertisements are a huge selling point for the Super Bowl, but in all other cases people hate them, amirite? More
+7I think it is cute when someone says I am pushing their buttons...if that was true I would think at some point I would have found the "mute" button🙄 More
Who would you say your Guru is? Everyone's gotta have a guru... more than a mentor... a person they hold in high esteem, almost to the point of worship...
What do you do for pleasure? Is there some activity or skill you picked up at one point and developed over time? More
+11Men don't talk about their problems much online, amirite? Have you come to a point where you've accepted your inadequacies.
+4We have entered an era where people do not accept the opinions of others. Where certain viewpoints, means of communication, or simple appearances can immediately disqualify your very argument, leaving an individual with no choice but to kick and scream beneath the foot of those who have usurped the throne that they once sought to destroy. Exiling the townsfolk of that throne's kingdom simply for being within the same walls. Our internet has become more and more divisive, what with various organizations lashing out at each others' throats. Individuals on both sides opting not to communicate ideas, but to engage in primitive mudslinging before curling up in the confides of their cushioned cave, where fellow hermits pat them on the back and offer them a drink for all of their noble, valiant efforts against their illusion of a foe. In the outside world, our leaders have been placed at the switch of a speeding trolley, forced to choose between what is right, and what gives them more influence. Unfortunately, we all know what the result will be - what with the escalating violence and its justification being followed by stifled and stomped outrage, pressure is sure to build on either side, bound to give way once the cart dashes across the selected track, creating an immense blow that could surely damage the other side to some degree - if not annihilate them. We see it even now on our internet, where the people had pulled the trolley to one side, the resulting burst tearing at the other track - where each man woman and child laying upon the rails would then emerge bruised and scarred from the shrapnel. But why is this the case? We must take a moment and lower our arms and our hands, our fingers and guns, and reflect on the objective truth of each situation instead of the subjective hysteria we have all sunken into and now clamber within, forcing our arms to contort and our index fingers to point and our mouths to swear and our veins to pop. He must sit down and converse, seeking understanding of another perspective, not berating the individual. We must be open to let others understand where we come from and why we view the world as we do - and while it is the duty of each individual to seek their own knowledge, the only one with a true understanding of one's own opinion is the individual dispensing it to his or her audience.
0I have a very interesting and enlightening conversation to discuss today. It is--- why do victims of narcissists keep going back to them after breaking away. The answer is simple. It is because victims are ADDICTED to them. Professionals say it is a worse addiction than heroine. WHY are victims addicted to them? Again the answer is fairly straightforward. The narcissists has programmed the victim like a rat in a science lab. Victims are chosen because they have low esteem, without a support system, alone, and have co-dependency issues... in other words, easy targets. There are three stages. This is the process: The first stage is LOVE BOMBING. Victims are given spectacular amounts of loving, focused attention, gifts, support, care, concern, sex, texts, calls. (Just like the scientist always gives the rat a food pellet when the rat pushes the button). The goal here is to cause DEPENDENCY AND ISOLATION and it works. The victim knows this is unusual and a red flag, but they are looking for love in all the wrong places. Enter stage Two: This is the crazy making hideous stage. Continuing with the rat in the cage analogy, the scientist/Narcissists only gives love/pellets or shocks/abuse at their discretion. Love and abuse are given intermittently without the victim knowing when, where, or why . After months or years of enduring SUBTLE AND LETHAL lies, torture, demands, manipulations, crazy arguments, jealousy, lack of freedom, lack of boundaries, broken promises the victims leaves. But for most victims, they return again. (The Stockholm Syndrome). Victims are hoping for justice, vindication, apology, kindness, remedy for all the destruction. They want the dream back of their lover. Final Stage Three is when the Narcissists DISCARDS the victim like a piece of trash and moves on to new blood. Last point, WHY would a Narcissists treat another loving human being this way? Professionals call it SUPPLY from their victims. Narcissists only feel alive, wanted, powerful, and in control through their victims. They have no inner soul, compass, conscience and are totally INCAPABLE of loving. They live in a world of their own making... it is psychotic, antisocial, pathological. Sadly, they are geniuses and subtle in their endeavors to suck a victim's life blood in every way. The answer for the VICTIMS is GET HEALTHY AND GET FREE. (If interested in further info, please See excellent videos on Youtube from Melanie Tonia Evans, Teal Swan, Ross Rosenberg, and others will be listed there.)
People don't like the word compromise very much. But in lieu of resolution...compromise needs to happen...amirite? More